The best any author can do is guess what might be the best combination of words he or she can assemble to make a reader most appreciative.
Every author has his or her opinion on everything. You don’t need another opinion nor another guess.
There is a vein of pure gold into which only you can dig. A treasure so pure, so vast and so majestic it has no bounds. You won’t find it in any book or blog. Not even a library.
How? Where? If you effortlessly quiet all of your surroundings and with no attachments just be, that vein of gold may be opened to you.
Go. Try the highest author.
Try answers that are Infinite and not just someone else’s guess.