Write your book. Answer your questions. Decide what is right. Become your own reference. Commit. Be the authority.
Perfect it as you go. Rip out the pages that are ambiguous. Replace them with your highest version.
Continually raise the bar and eliminate everything under that threshold.
What you contemplate as the Law of your life, becomes the Law of your life. You can create every rule of your life. You can decide what will happen and when. You decide to enforce those rules or not.
You want something to cease? Declare it in Chapter Five. You want something to appear? Turn to Chapter Seven.
This is emancipation. Allowing your life to take shape according to your principles. Find wings.