First glance is uncertainty. What is it? Does it have meaning for me?
With the second glance comes an added feature, perhaps; shape, size, a voice, an action, a possibility.
Next, the realization that this found trait could be with you often.
Then, an opening. A step which includes permissiveness and the formation of a strategy for attaining.
These possibilities haven’t been posited into your to save you . . .
they have arrived to assist you in saving yourself.