Some days are worse than others, and being told to picture happiness in all you do is bad enough. During the ‘bad’ times – it is ridiculous. But – feel horrible on your own terms.
Mope, but mope exactly how you want to mope. Cry exactly how you want to cry. If agonizing is in the cards, agonize as your heart tells you to agonize. Perhaps you desire to not bring any agenda to this suffering whatsoever. Great, let go of all your habits and allow nature to take you through it.
Time heals, but much more importantly, time teaches.
When the desire to mope has gone, realize you have the total freedom to mope at any time and to any extent you wish.
Realize you have the total freedom to handle any situation exactly as you see fit.
You can listen to anybody, just don’t act without getting your precise answer from your heart.
It will let you know . . .
when it’s the perfect time to go and pick up the pork chops, yourself.