Is it finally time to realize that we don’t need to be part of any ‘pot stirrers’ group? Each pot is visited continually and the inciteful mixing procedure has been perfected for every one.
Perhaps the most valuable effort would be to discover a new and better perspective from which the concerns are viewed.
The same may hold true for our personal problems. By loosening our grip we can manipulate them and see them from a different angle. We can put them in different contexts and visualize them in modified forms.
Or, you can go buy another new spoon.