Living your life in the best way possible.
It’s your choice.
Is something not perfect? Smother it with something else, done in a different way.
How did that work out for you? It’s better? Keep doing it until it meets your standards.
It’s not better? Smother that with something else.
You are where you are because that is exactly where you want to be . . .
Whether you’ll admit that to yourself, or not.